The good lord will take you away

Let's talk about sex piggy. ________________________________________________________________

A call from HK made me think of the wonderful times i had with my hk sista. Yes, especially those times she was drunk.

That night during spring break, was the first time i experienced what alcohol could do to her. After five bottles of wine/beer/shots, A was stumbling around the hotel room, singing and screaming her version of britney's "hit me baby one more time." And so her version was titled "kiss me baby one more time". haha. It was a torture sharing the same bed with her that night. She refused to let me go to bed before she adequately stunned and "raped" whatever's left of the innocence in me. Goodness. Haha. But that was fun times and i still tease her about that night till today.

And so i received a call from her a couple of days back, exclaiming her first sexual experience after returning from US. She spared me nothing. I had to endure that 15 mins conversation, with alot of keen description. Sometimes i really wonder how our "relationship" got so "sexual". haha. She's the one person whom i talk to about sex most, because she is just so open about everything. She's so blatantly honest, it's funny.

She really made me realised that hk girls are so much more liberal than singaporean girls! Or at least my group of friends are all rather conservative, i think, and hope.

I do not agree with pre-marital sex, and even worse, one night stands. However, its funny how i can go into such lengthly conversations with my hk sista over it. I love honest conversations, wide open discussions. This is the best part of our friendship. Our honestly towards each other, and our ability to talk about everything.

I remember when i made fun of her accent, she told me straight in the face that " do u know thats a very rude thing to say?". I remember our endless conversations about how it is being fat in this skinny society, surrounded by skinny palm trees. I remember how she told me to stop flirting with baobei because she is interested in him.

I remember how i told her that she should stop trying to have sex with every man she vaguely has an interest in because that's gross and unsafe. I remember how i told her that she should stop exposing her belly in public because its a huge turn off.

I remember how she pulled me along during our torturous trekking, never letting me fall behind her. I remember how she carried our backpack for all 3 days of trekking because she was so much fitter and didnt want to add on any more burden to me. I remember how we reached the top of the moutain, hand in hand, gasping for breath and taking in the view in awe. I remember how we had so much fun in the jacuzzi, laughing and squashing our huge bodies into one tub. I remember that hug at the airport, when we both knew that we'll never another chance to experience that wonderful friendship again.

Her friendship was so true, so honest, so dirty yet pure. Her laughter was so contagious, so honky and so unglamourous. But she was so generous, so giving and so kind. Her spirit made my days in the states brighter than anything else. She rocked my world.

Oh man...i really do miss her. :( sillychubbytubbypiggy.

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